Wednesday, December 10, 2014

REFLECTIONS OF A NON GOD FEARING MAN




GOD FEARING MAN

I am not a god fearing man,
Because I do not fear what I love,
I know that love has to understand,
So my god could not have a wrathful hand,

Freedom requires an introspective mind,
Humility has often opined,
For you to get your life’s-worth of soul,
Grow whatever peace you can find…

BY BIGDADDY BLUES

Saturday, November 22, 2014

FROM DRED SCOTT TO MICHAEL BROWN: A LONG HISTORY OF LEGAL PRECEDENTS DOCUMENTING THE STRUGGLE FOR FREEDOM AGAINST RACISM IN AMERICA


Portrait of Dred Scott

SIFTING THROUGH THE BIG BAG OF CIVIL RIGHTS ISSUES:
Bigdaddy Blues’ Response To The compelling article, “A Letter To The “Insta-Advocates” Of Civil Rights And Justice From A Black Same Gender Loving Man” Written by Bobby Smith.

Over the years I have attended so many protests and demonstrations here in this capital city and abroad, marching and standing vigil for truth, so I fully support your effort to spread the word among those who have already shown that they have a conscience and are open to positive change. I do recall many other organizations circulating their pamphlets and literature related to the overall causes of human civil rights, information I carefully tucked away to read later whilst focusing on the main cause, the cause that got me out of my bed that day. 

I wrote this article in direct response to a question posed by author Bobby Smith because it was such a powerful question.  After reading his article it resounded stronger in my mind... It caused me to contemplate the track record of the civil rights movement with regard to homosexuality and sexuality in general.  Over the past few years the civil rights movement has come under fire with respect to its lack of interest and tenacity regarding the GBLT community in spite of the fact that many of its leaders have been openly GBLT.  In my opinion civil rights leaders have marginalized the causes of the GBLT community casing a rift in the political struggles of these two movements.  Much of the social progress that might have been achieved together has been slowed due to the perception that the GBLT movement was not the same as the same as the struggle being fought by Black Americans as well as other ethnic and religious groups in this country.  Mr. Smith's question was posed to me as follows:

"How do you think this message would be received if I went to Ferguson and recited it in front of the collective protesters?"

Bobby Smith, you throw an interesting and essential wrench into the broad bag of civil rights causes.  Some 50 years after the first major civil rights movement the issues of homosexuality and sexuality in general have finally surfaced after being purposely suppressed in order that racism in specific could remain the primary concern.  Now there are some merits to this 1960's strategy given the times and while this does not make it right it certainly made the movement more effective by reducing the number of competing issues America had to weigh at that most difficult time.  A similar event happened 150 years earlier with the women's suffrage movement.  From the early 1700s right down until the Emancipation Proclamation was written abolitionists and suffragists traveled the same lecture circuits between Europe and the United States each visualizing their causes as equally essential and as so intimately connected to be treated as one cause.   Unfortunately as history has shown us though abolitionists and suffragists protested hand in hand the suffrage movement was completely ignored when Lincoln emancipated the slaves.  At that time Lincoln and congress determined that America was not yet ready to deal with both causes though both were certainly valid. 

Tintype of Dred Scott


In the 1960’s after a rough period of about 100 years since emancipation the evil truth of racism again arose before the nation as the issue of primary concern.  Now we are witnesses to the rise of the sexual revolution which has advanced to the front line of the civil rights movement but not without some much expected resistance.   Historically the civil rights community has been raised to ignore the concerns of the sexual revolution because sex has been perverted into a dirty and uncomfortable subject in American culture and leaders are concerned that their images  are not besmirched or polarized with sexual issues at the expense of other humanitarian concerns such as racism and economic bias.  I am certain that the protesters in Ferguson certainly do not want to divert attention from the issue at hand which is racism in general but murder and discrimination against black men, Michael Brown in specific. But there is no better place to share your concerns than in Ferguson  which is already primed and open to the cause of egalitarianism having been victimized so horribly by the lack of it. 

So I must ask you honestly Bobby Smith, turning your own question back upon you; “what kind of response do you expect to receive if given a chance to read your article to the demonstrators at Ferguson a population which is already focused on a different application of civil rights protest?  To conclude my response please allow me to say that I passionately support your mission to raise awareness of sexual discrimination within the ranks of the civil rights movement among the outraged population of Ferguson but I must also ask you to please clarify if there is any physical tie-in with the motive for the assassination of Michael Brown of which you are aware?  More directly, was Michael Brown homosexual or was he perceived to be gay perhaps through his personal associations and if so was his murderer was aware of this; might it have motivated the policeman to kill him and inspired the local police and judicial system to discriminate against him?  Is there a clear link between the assassination of Michael Brown and the historical trend of the civil rights movement to downplay homosexual rights that makes gay rights stand out among all the components of the big bag of civil rights as a concern to be weighed equally in the protest and trial of the violent and senseless assassination of Michael Brown? 

FIN

WRITTEN BY: BIGDADDY BLUES

Read the full article by Bobby Smith at: https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B7XngP-oqDH8ZDZoYWZBTkl5bU0/edit  


1847 Article on the Dred Scott Trial

Friday, November 7, 2014

WHAT WE CAN DO: KEEP THE OPTIONS WITHIN HUMAN SCOPE


WHAT WE CAN DO

What can we do to stop the wind,
That will keep it from ever blowing again,
How can we neuter passions force,
To render it impotent during its course,
Gladly, the options are none too few,
We should be satisfied with what we can do…


BY BIGDADDY BLUES


Tuesday, November 4, 2014

PRUDENCE: AN OLDER MAN'S REFLECTION ON YOUTH


PRUDENCE

If I unseal the door to earlier years,
when life appeared to be blessed with fewer cares,
i may fail entering, to slight an already conquered foe,
who bruised my youth but now slays my elder unawares’,

old men clench the dust of prudence in their fists,
owing more than chance for each laurel’ed tryst,
i might die recapturing youth’s careless lustiness,
or with my last breaths I might thank death for his gentleness…

By Bigdaddy Blues




Saturday, November 1, 2014

TAMING THE BRUTE: CAN THE BLACK COMMUNITY POLICE ITSELF?



TAMING THE “BRUTE”: WHICH IS MOST CRIMINAL A MAN CORRUPTED BY HIS ENVIRONMENT OR THE COMMUNITY THAT CORRUPTED HIM?

The image of the Black American male is a topic that is necessarily woven into most of the articles and commentary I have written for “For The Brothas” since its creation.  After all For The Brothas was the brainchild of my passion to honestly examine every aspect of Black American manhood challenging its readers and members to view this phenomenon from a fresh and informed perspective.  Black American men live and thrive in a country that more often than not visualizes them as brutes, criminals and savages as part of a long standing tradition of racism.  Whether they are in actuality the social demons this culture markets them as is an issue that has been hotly debated for over 300 years in America.  In spite of the fact that this country has elected its first Black American male president for a second term the unrelenting rumour of racism has continued to shadow his administration.  In fact, the election of Barack Obama as the first black president of the United States of America has actually had the unexpected effect of exacerbating the unresolved and dangling issue of racism and more specifically the divine right of one race to assume superiority over another.  As it did over 200 years ago when the ink of the Declaration of Independence and American Constitution were still wet upon the parchment the credibility of a black man as an equal in every respect to any and every other man upon this earth remains unresolved because it directly challenges the belief of racists that black men are inferior in every way and inherently corrupt by virtue of their inferiority.  I like to believe that the framers of the Declaration of Independence in their wisdom planted the seeds of universal egalitarianism within that document understanding the times were not ripe for a wholesale implementation of that lofty ideal and trusting that a more enlightened time would sow them and bring them into glorious fruition.  In many ways history did play out in that selfsame way, overlong for black men yearning for freedom and opportunity in a land they had not chosen to live.  Even so Black American men have shown unparalleled strength, bravery, patience and virtue on their long an incomplete journey to freedom and being imperfect as are all men they have themselves created centuries-long conflicts among themselves. There is a huge disparity in America between educated and affluent black men such as Obama and the men, though many of them merely common men but collectively demonized as street thugs and criminals living in some of America’s poorest ghettos and privy or not, romanticized as purveyors of what has become a signature ghetto culture.  Likewise, there is a lesser known and celebrated culture of Black American men who represent the black intelligentsia a privileged and highly successful educated class of men whose history stretches back to the days of slavery and continues to broaden in both scope and accomplishment.  How we begin to compare these two categories of Black American men has nothing to do with their pedigree, it begins on a level playing field which in America universally classifies these men as brutes and savages, social dissidents and criminals who should be feared…



The issue then and now remains the same because Black Americans so easily turn a blind-eye to the truth.  There are many reasons why Black Americans choose not to challenge biased treatment of black men but two of them stand out amid the rest.  The larger of the two key problems is that acknowledging racism requires them to step out of a dysfunctional comfort zone they have created as a buffer for the certainty of a biased assault.  Secondly, giving notice to racism challenges them to process its unpleasant content forcing them to shape an objective and informed opinion from which to take positive action.  Racism is not a threat when it has been pushed out of sight and out of mind but as these 300 some years since the beginning of the enslavement of Africans has proven it is a resilient threat that appears not to be going away! The truth of the matter is that Black Americans really do have a sound and factual basis for their fears about racism.  In the past and present black people could be severely punished for supporting a black man or advocating a cause sympathetic with a black man.  Black American’s are victims of racial operant conditioning, a process of slow brainwashing used to train animals to perform certain tasks over and over and over again until it becomes second nature.  Over nearly 300 years of oppression has conditioned black people to resent the history of unjust punishment of black men and they fight back by assuming all black men are being unjustly treated by the law, for this behavior I have coined the term “Reparation Justice”, it is a feeling of entitlement for innocence based on a past history of injustice whether the man is innocent or not.  “This is why black people are hesitant to get involved when they see a black man being pulled over on the roadside or incarcerated on the sidewalk, this is why black people are afraid to speak up when they witness or have knowledge of a crime committed by a black man.  Racism must be intelligently and humanely dealt with but it may never completely disappear in our lifetime.  



The primary challenge for the Black American community is to develop and establish effective and resilient think-tanks to galvanize and empower itself in spite of racism in a manner that does not regurgitate the same biases it seeks to overcome.  It is a difficult task because these think tanks must be highly introspective, i.e. focused on the condition of Black American culture and yet responsive to those humans and cultures who share and/or do not share their struggle.  Accomplishing this task requires a highly specialized and diversified way of thinking.  The Black community has floundered overlong because of a critical disparity between its techniques for thinking these problems through.  In a truly Machiavellian diorama the black intelligentsia has fought and effectively lost its power struggle to the more brutish and barbaric faction that gets it power credibility from the street!   Today the black intelligentsia watches in anesthetic horror from the stained windows of their ivory towers as the decayed remnants of a once brilliant black community fail and become gentrified.  They bemoan the rich ethnic history they failed to capture there that has been replaced with the brutish history of the latest homicide, gang debacle or drug overdose.  On the fringes of these dwindling communities drug dealers continue to stand guard over territories for which they have no legal claim, the dynamics of whose ownership exceeds their ability to comprehend until the cold notice to vacate arrives forwarded through the attorneys of proprietors in another country.  Nothing could be more depressing…



The black men standing on the streets feel as if they own them and as if they have gone through some ancient warriors rites of passage to earn the right to stand there guard their ancestral territory to the death.  But the absurdity of this premise only becomes gruesomely evident when the coroners truck carts away their corpse.  Who knows what trials they endured to earn the right to stand in the place where they were ultimately killed, who knows what level of street knowledge they achieved what standard of street credibility they earned in order to stand up and be cut down where they stood? The legendary skills of the streetwise have been passed on generation to generation from the plantation to  the city and they have withstood the slavemaster’s whip and the gangsters bullet, they are weapons and tools forged for use in a deadly and viscous cycle human suffering and depravity.   The streetwise method of thinking can in fact be qualified as a comprehensive philosophy driven by the notion of an over-romanticized ghetto culture that is highly survivalist and desperate in nature.  Street sense relies on raw, spontaneous instinct, it is adrenaline based and therefore highly effective in dangerous situations but can be virtually worthless when a more cerebral and phased out solution is required.  Many people believe that the man who invests his existence only in street sense does so because he visualizes his life as a transient phenomenon with the expectation of little accomplishment beyond the stolen pleasures he might wrest from the incessant conflicts threatening his freedom and his life.  He knows these pleasures are not legitimately earned but rationalizes them by citing the corruption of humanity in general as justification for seizing the material objectives without regard their morality.  He may believe that because all men covet money, possessions and power his methodology is no more immoral or unethical as the next villain.  Street sense can never solve the problems of racism because it is focused on securing a basic level survival lasting only for the moment; a state of existence that will be in desperate chaos almost as soon as it becomes gratified due to its lack of long-term planning.  Recidivism and many other social dysfunctions that case people to become locked into addictions, economic hardship, over-dependency on social welfare, and other debilitating syndrome are some typical corrosive hallmarks of street-wisdom.  Street wisdom and philosophy is not sustainable as the foundation for a culture or community outside of an esoteric ring of gangsters, outlaws or thieves… It cannot support the critical inter-cultural relationships that  diverse, twenty-first century American culture demands.



When viewed from a purely statistical perspective it is easy to see that there is a real population of Black Americans that identify with the ideological system or philosophy re-minted in the twentieth century from the ancient Roman term, “Ghetto” who significantly outnumber the black intelligentsia and that is why street sense and street credibility collectively known as ghetto culture reigns as the predominant force of leadership within the black community today.  Unlike most cultures which experience internal decline, Black American culture and specifically the culture of the black intelligentsia did not lose power primarily through attrition as its ranks were always historically minimized by slavery.   Slavery as we well know was an inherently strangling phenomenon wherein the education and socioeconomic empowerment of black men was institutionally aborted.  During the period of slavery when only freedmen could pursue education and the manifest destiny embodied within their limited scope of careers they did represent their community as the black intelligentsia. After slavery many black men were able to advance themselves in the example of the black intelligentsia with resources made available to them during the reconstruction but their numbers were still heavily outweighed by uneducated and unsophisticated black men who often had no choice but to cling to the fetters of post-slavery reality.  After the brief blessing of reconstruction black men were again plunged into an abysmal state of existence begrudging them their lawful emancipation replacing it with laws both on and off the books that would effectively reverse the 13th amendment and lock them out of the nation’s burgeoning industrial economy. 



Now the black intelligentsia was able to make remarkable progress after the emancipation of black peoples.  Aided by the overlay of Victorian culture the black intelligentsia assumed a more prominent role in the newly formed black community of freedmen.  Historically the black intelligentsia comprised of clergymen, farmers and businessmen as well as some slaves who held prominent positions within the plantation system was always the ethical and political rock of the bisected black community.  Whenever there was any racial conflict the men of the black intelligentsia were first consulted by both black and white stakeholders toward a resolution.  Then as now slaves, ex slaves as well as their descendants were forced to comply with the wishes of these black leaders whether they agreed with them or not because of the rigidity of the social structure; that they greatly resented and envied them their affluence cannot be discounted as there would have been a huge gulf in their respective standards of living.  Such men certainly might have viewed the black intelligentsia with the same disdain they held for men they more clearly understood to be their oppressors.  So it is quite easy to understand how institutionally enforced oppression, poverty and ignorance has always been the source of the black man’s hatred and resentment of authority, and education or intelligence.  Moreover, the gulf between the black intelligentsia and the general population of the black community that began to lessen in the late nineteenth century, stabilize during the first half of the twentieth century only to destabilize and widen again during the second half of the twentieth and first quarter of the twenty-first century is a clear indicator that this internal trauma has not been managed.  In reality there has been no attempt to address this disparity; the black community continues to ignore its existence as if it were at the bottom of their substantial pile of problems.  So the resentment, animosity and jealousy coming from the poor and uneducated classes of Black Americans intensified over the long years during and after slavery to the present as a rising black middle class turned its noses up at its less fortunate brothers and sisters and as the underclasses snubbed the black intelligentsia back.  The poor of the black community were amply frustrated with their own struggles to find advancement and they began to claim that the economically successful talented tenth had merely adopted the ways of their oppressors and embarked on a wholesale rejection of the black intelligentsia including their values mostly as a weak means of defense against forces they did not wholly understand. 



Our nineteenth and early twentieth century black intellectuals were wrong in their assumption that their poor brothers and sisters were morally corrupt and ignorant and therefore deserving of the cruel vicissitudes of life exacted upon them.  In those days such painful reminders of the inequity in justice would commonly be personified by a frequent lynching or incarceration for no other reason than being a black man vulnerable and guilty by virtue of his powerlessness.  Yes, we can honestly and regrettably say that the black intelligentsia were and are continue to be guilty of bias against poor, uneducated, and unsophisticated black man by even partially condoning the lynching’s and sentencing’s of those assumed to be brutish and ethically corrupt brothers without first challenging the legitimacy of their sentence and the motive of their accusers. 



This brings us full circle to expose the nature of the black community that would allow it to ignore itself through the illusion that some standard of normalcy was being preserved whilst the opposite, its very foundation was being liquefied and vaporized through a determined combination of destructive external and internal forces which are invested in the opportunistic exploitation of apathy to seize total control.  Even more responsibility lies on the heads of those living in troubled communities for turning the tide around making it necessary for them to wake up and name the undefined line they are attempting to avoid crossing.  Someone must cross that line! The line must be drawn where black men who conspire to or actually committed crimes are first held accountable by their own communities.  Because the legal power structure in America has historically excluded Black Americans from taking part in their own governance blacks have always quietly awaited the sting of their masters whip knowing nothing else as the definition of justice.  This is why the disdain for snitching has always enabled the “Brute” to escape justice in his own community as if lying could become a form of civil disobedience as well as means to empower the powerless with their own homegrown recipe for jurisprudence.  The game of “reparation-justice” the black community has played for over 150 years now to evade taking responsibility for the cultivation of a humane and civilized community has grown equally as old as the game of continued racism against black men.  No man is innocent simply because he is black and his accusers are either white and or racists. A man is only guilty if he is truly guilty and we must all brace ourselves to demand and then confront the truth of a man’s choices as well as well as demanding and confronting the truth of his accusers!   Anyone of the black intelligentsia can turn a blind-eye to justice choosing not to hold a black man accountable because of fear, ignorance or bias and for that matter so can the black community at the other end of the socioeconomic and political spectrum; neither of them can ever be right in so doing!  On the other end of the spectrum the prevalent phenomenon of racism in America which aggressively holds black men to unreasonable extremes of legal, ethical and moral accountability it does not impose upon others must continue to be unequivocally challenged wherever and whenever it occurs on a unified front led by the black community.  The black community is a diversified front should not be dominated by the black intelligentsia or any other faction to the extent that it becomes unable to bend its substantial power to ensure that justice is duly served to every Black American man.

FIN.


WRITTEN BY: BIGDADDY BLUES


Monday, October 13, 2014

Renewal: "I was a child again, eager to be taught"



RENEWAL…

My pyre was swept by winds from the heavens,
they blasted my corporeal features to naught,
my spirit meandered within infinite oceans,
I was a child again, eager to be taught…

FIN

BIGDADDY BLUES












Sunday, October 12, 2014

A MATURE MAN'S RESOLUTION OF MORTALITY: AN INEVITABLE END TO LIFE'S INESTIMABLE PLEASURES

                

                   DEATH  

Prologue:

“I DO NOT WELCOME DEATH… LIFE IS WHAT I KNOW…
IT’S WHAT I CELEBRAE…  A HOME FROM WHICH,
I WILL NOT WILLINGLY GO…”
           

Sermon:

If I could die reveling midst a farewell speech,
occasioned to free my soul,
i would submit…,
but  in that un-promised hour,
rolling with the unpractised script of earthly dalliances,
i would be loath to quit,

if life became a hardship so torturous to abide,
that only death could comfort me,
i should not submit,
owing that choice to death,
I’d render my goodbyes in the last gleam of brilliance,
my life could get…

if death were a well-planned ceremony,
populated by earnest friends,
i’d  almost take it’s hand,
and if deaths advancing footfall granted power,
to outlast all remembrance,
I’d be a legendary man,
  

this life bade me follow every passion in my soul,
with a mind too free for guilt or regret,
to stay my hand,
therefore, every nuance of my being is defined,
not by death,
but by the testament of living as a man…

                            FIN


               BIGDADDY BLUES
























REMINDERS OF OUR MORTALITY...






















Tuesday, July 1, 2014

AN OLDER MAN'S SEARCH IN A DWINDLING POOL OF ROLE MODELS AND FRIENDS



ROLE MODELS AND MATURE MEN…

I am aware of no universal law which dictates that role models for mature men are limited to their contemporaries or to that hallowed class of  lightly nimbused yet remarkably agile gentlemen many years their senior.  Driven by my intuition I’ve opined that no such law exists nor, should exist.  For the more mature I become the more aware I am of natures’ fateful thinning-out process and by this I reference not only the gradual denuding and silvering of my hoary beard but more poignantly the untimely physical transition of those esteemed mortals whom I have ever so faithfully held in high esteem; my idols.  The bitter trial of growing older and maturing is held against the sharp edge of loss.  A man must develop effective strategies to manage the death or circumstantial loss through relocation or other factors of those whom he has always looked to for inspiration and support.  A man matures when he is forced to replace the loss of mentorship and in many ways for many reasons a maturing man eventually becomes his own mentor.  By the time we reach our fifties our essential pool of external wisdom may have decreased by 50 percent or more.    This is not to say that older men should fear they will become passengers in a driverless car but they should be aware that they will be increasingly compelled to draw from their own strength and wisdom as time moves along. 

Where do older gentlemen look to establish new mentorships and role models and can it be assumed that after a fashion, a man who has successfully matured no longer needs this kind of external support?  If the process of maturity is a continual evolution then a 55 or 65 or even 95 year old man can still benefit from some form of male mentorship, perhaps not as much or the same kind as an 18 or 25 year old man but relative to their worldliness.  Many automatically assume that an older man no longer needs social and emotional guidance as if he has reached the pinnacle of wisdom through the crucible of his life but we should reexamine this phenomenon quite closely.  Mature men can and should be encouraged to remain open to mentorship after the first half-century of their lives, they should not retreat from the world simply because it is no longer familiar to them.



An older gentleman of 85 shared a very personal story with me.  He noted that nearly all of his childhood buddies had died and the star-studded cache of men that would have been the icons of his heyday had deceased long before his friends and family  began to pass away.   Remarkably this gentleman was deeply inspired by many icons of twenty-first century popular culture including President Obama.  His mentors and role models had completely shifted to a contingent of more youthful men whose gallantry spanned the last and first quarters of the twentieth and twenty-first centuries. 

To this gentleman, Obama personified something close to a messianic reality but rooted in a more practical context arrayed in normal trappings.  For a black man of 85 Obama’s rise to the oval office was an unexpected and redeeming surprise.  This old gentleman was born on the eve of the great depression, at the tail of the First World War and at the head of the second, existing as a black man shrouded by the overlay of racism some 40 years before The Civil Rights Era. Witnessing the election of America’s first Black American president was an experience of unimaginable power and significance because his contemporaries and he contemporaries were born only 60 years after the Emancipation of slaves, one generation removed from that tragic birthmark that will forever be emblazoned on Americas forehead and conscience written in a sanguine hue like billions of scarlet letters proclaiming every injustice dealt to millions of innocent lives.  He certainly had heard the stories of slaves that would have been his own relatives and elders of his community and wondered that with the oppression of black men what had been oathed as freedom on paper was of little worth at face value.  Like so many gracious and princely black men who had rinsed the muck of Jim Crow from their boots forgiving the white man for the evils he had set upon him this lordly gentleman took the election of Obama as a sign that black and white men were healed and willing to put race behind them for the good of all.  For this man the mere image of Obama proclaimed as a leader and champion of freedom, an intellectual and father meant ever so much more than the sting of the past; the past was closed and forgiven and a glorious future of peace and tolerance would ensue!



Using this example we mature men can certainly identify many younger men who represent role models and even mentors in our lives.  It is like being a teacher and yet remaining open to learn life’s lessons by watching the young.  An older man who can temper his need for growth through mentorship to accept guidance from the examples of remarkable younger men as well as those his age and older can draw from a wealth of wisdom that might otherwise go untapped.  I do not believe that we grow older to become islands of wisdom.  In order to grow and remain wise even an island must remain connected to the mainland and to other islands or suffer the fate of becoming culturally obsolete.  For a maturing man an hermetic withdrawal from a changing, dwindling world is tantamount to a self-induced cultural obsolescence and should be avoided at all costs.  We must continue to seek positive inspiration in that which is new, vibrant, accessible and alive!  We must continue to challenge ourselves to balance the ever shrinking landscape populated by role models and mature men…


FIN

Sunday, June 15, 2014

FATHER'S DAY AFFIRMATION 2014

FREDERICK DOUGLASS SITTING WITH ONE OF HIS TWO SONS


FATHERS DAY: SERVING AS AN EFFECTIVE AFFIRMATION AND ASPIRATION FOR THE BLACK COMMUNITY


Because the image of the Black American male is far too often portrayed as a negative rather than a positive in mainstream American culture the celebration of “Father’s Day” has always served to affirm the existence of what we affectionately call a, “Good Black Man” and the existence of a standard for traditional family values.   On father’s day we affirm that in spite of the odds cohesive and loving nuclear families including a strong patriarchal figure have survived.  Similar in theory to the “Black Power” and “Black Is Beautiful” campaigns of the 1960’s and 1970’s civil rights movement, father’s day, within the context of the Black American community, has always served as a time when Black American families can celebrate the amazing contribution of the black men who play an important role in their lives and say “We Are Not That Negative Stereotype; We Are The Exception!”.  What we are really saying is that we are just the same, we are all the same, we too are blessed to have wonderful fathers whom we love and revere too the same as every other human being! 

SAMMY DAVIS JR. ENJOYING FAMILY LIFE WITH HIS SON


The sobering reality for all black men that everything ultimately comes down to race in America is certainly not a problem of their choosing.  All black people are similarly frustrated in America whenever they are forced to take the position that everything is subject to a different set of variables when it comes to them due to a racial climate they did not create but must incessantly defend against.  Ultimately father’s day is no different across races because it shares a universal reverence for manhood blessed by fatherhood.  Because the image of Black American men is embattled on all fronts however, father’s day necessarily takes on a more sociopolitical nuance in the black community because American society’s view of black fatherhood has always been portrayed as an essay in systemic failure.  This is why Black Americans who speak consciously of their oppression often include in their celebrations of accomplishment their gratitude at having overcome these omnipresent racial barriers.  To those who are not black it must certainly appear that most socially conscious Black Americans are obsessed with race.  This is a myth which is able to take shape in the mind of those considered to be mainstream because they are not challenged to defend themselves on every front solely on the basis of skin color.  Honest and ethically sound people who react defensibly to racism are not militants or racists themselves but in a country so deeply in denial about race those who openly defend their rights against racial bias are portrayed as malcontents and dissidents because they challenge the established state of universally targeted forgetfulness.  Everyone appears to agree not to deal with race unless forced in  spite of the fact that it exists all around them. The simple solution to end racism is to just be honest and deal with the darned thing! Therefore I am unapologetic about my choice to represent what might otherwise be viewed as universal issues from the perspective of a man of color since color has never ceased to be a discriminating factor for the world in which I live…  When race ceases to be a negative issue in this world then I will happily let it die but alas that is not anywhere close to the reality of contemporary human civilization...  To make the equation that more difficult it is incontrovertibly true that in order for one to ever imagine themselves capable of erasing the scar of racism from the world one must themselves be free from the potent ideological curse of racism...  Ideological battles are so very different yet similar in nature from physical ones.  In hand to hand combat opponents might be equally matched with physical weaponry but their mental skill as warriors and even a bit of divinely inspired luck might decidedly turn the tide.  Because racism is so keenly an ideological manner of warfare those who fight against it must always be certain they do not employ the same racist tactics as their adversaries!  The successful battle against racism is fought with clever blows of non-racist rationale, keener, broader and more subtle in their application poised to win the war with strategic battles rather than expend itself in vain, myopic skirmishes...

W. E. B. DUBOIS AND HIS EARLY FAMILY


Those within the black community who do celebrate father’s day as a family event effectively help to erase the stigma of “the missing patriarch” establishing that there is a clear and essential relationship between the male-identified element of fatherhood and the establishment of a healthy, gender balance in the nuclear family structure.  Statistically there are some profoundly troubling issues regarding the effective presence of the patriarch of the black family a reality that has inspired numerous grass roots organizations such as the Fatherhood Initiative.  This does not mean that women have not been able to administer effective parenting in the absence of a patriarch but affirms the importance and effectiveness of gender-specific parenting as a shared role between father and mother as an essential variable in the development of a child's self and world view. It would be impossible to intelligently discuss this topic without honestly examining the many factors deterring black men from assuming a positive role in the parenting of the children they propagate.  As is often the default the way our media generates images and expectations of black men for consumption in popular culture plays a huge role in the way black men are ultimately socialized and view themselves as potential fathers.  However the lion’s share of the responsibility must fall upon the negligent shoulders of the perversely ethically and morally corrupt black community itself.  Black Americans cannot blame non-black controlled media for the ruination of their family values because it promotes the almighty dollar before sound sociocultural standards.  

MARCUS GARVEY AND HIS WIFE AND THE FIRST OF TWO SONS


Black Americans cannot blame racism for the streaming of black males into careers of crime, drugs, illiteracy and apathy such that they are unable to assume their patriarchal responsibilities.  If the Black American community cannot see that the solution will ultimately be realized by targeting itself as the main problem and understand that it must galvanize itself to become an effective infrastructure against internal deterioration then all the efforts of every civil rights leader is wasted.  No one but the black community can reverse the substantial early-loss of its potential patriarchs, (black male children), to the vices of this world; we alone hold the key to a working solution? It is long overdue for the remnant of the once strong black community to take a look at itself and thereby recognize that it has become its own worst enemy…  Gone are the days of the Knights of the white camellia! Remove the white robes from the heads of our worst adversaries and beneath them lay cloaked men and women “black as Cain” to quote Phillis Wheatley. Invoking the saying, “Begin from the beginning”, I suggest that even if it is for one day out the year, the celebration of fatherhood in the fractured community of Black America is a positive step in the right direction and the challenge is to discover how to expand this homage to fatherhood to the remaining 364 days of the year…  “Let the congregation say Amen”!

BOOKER T. WASHINGTON AND HIS TWO SONS


On this father’s day, even if the father does not represent a text-book, mythically proportioned, dad; paying homage to his contribution to the lives of his children and immediate family serves to affirm that good black fathers do exist and are doing the difficult work of fathering in a complex and erratic world that is more often pitted against their success than not.  Family values are important core elements of a cohesive, vibrant and dynamic culture and while in the twenty-first century we have a host of viable alternatives to the classic patriarchal family structure there is no denying that having an effective, loving father in the lives of his children, their mother, family and friends plays an enormous role in the establishment of a positive cultural image for black men and especially those who are fathers.  Because the black community has thrived through times of far greater external oppression we know that it is possible for an internal redirection to fix missing father syndrome without the assistance of mainstream media.  That puts the entire responsibility on the black community to overcome this adversity as it has in the past by doing the darned thing all by itself.  Therefore I say that it is not truly as great and hopeless an issue as may seem…   When I see happy families enjoying the blessings of father’s day it means that there still exist many good fathers; yes indeed there is much work to be done but far less than if I were to see no affirmations of fatherhood at all…  I bow low to these esteemed men who have joined the ranks of countless fathers before them spanning from the advent of humanity itself!  Through fatherhood the critical and primordial instructions for manhood are passed from one generation to the next.  The fathers of all humanity have passed on mankind’s ethical and moral code-book enabling our species to survive on this planet and in the name of all that is good and humane in this life I pray that this continuum will never be broken and that the Black American community will awaken and resume its global responsibility to pass down to each new generation the glorious torch of humanity…


FIN

PRESIDENT OBAMA WITH HIS  WIFE AND TWO DAUGHTERS 


Written By Bigdaddy Blues
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  1.  Julius Garvey comments on the lagacy of his father Marcus Garvey:  http://www.televisionjamaica.com/Programmes/PrimeTimeNews.aspx/Videos/20220